Voices+of+the+Victims

__Quotes from Teenage Victims__ taken from http://cyberbullying.us/
 * Cyber Bullying **

// Well I was talking on MSN one time...this girl messaged me saying that I'm gay, ugly and worthless. That made me feel so horrible inside....like I'm actually worthless." (Girl of unknown age from New Zealand) //

// This girl I used to have a crush on but later realized I didn't like her said some very rude things about me. She made a list of the bad things about me and the good things about her, and put it on her Livejournal (online journal) for me to see. She had moved away, so our only means of communication was computer. We argued because I am straight edge and she's does drugs. She said that all these people hated me and that I should do drugs. She said that because I once told her I felt sorry for her (she had a lot of family problems and I knew drugs weren't the answer) and she took it the wrong way." (16 year-old boy from California) //

Being bullied makes me feel really bad, and I often get depressed later at home. I would also plot revenge and privately express my 'hatred' towards the bully, but I doubt I would really do anything about it...I don't usually go to adults to 'tattle' on people, even though I know it's not tattling, it's real. (12 year-old girl from Virginia)

// My friend's friend started to make fun of my ethnic background, so I told him to stop disrespecting me. He ignored my plead and started to get even more verbally abusive. I ignored him but he started talking to me saying that I shouldn't f*k with him because he would beat my //**// a //**// down in front of his friends. (15 year-old boy from New Jersey) //

The internet is not a place to harass others or hurt them. The internet is supposed to be a place that is safe and fun for people, not a place to be criticized or harassed. I used to be bullied at school frequently and I was sometimes hurt so badly that I had to fake sick at school just so I could go home. One girl actually told me she would come and murder my parents and kill me personally. She made me cry so hard that I threw up. So, I know firsthand what its like to be bullied beyond your imagination. (12 year old girl from Michigan)

When I still had AOL, this one guy asked me how I looked and wanted to know about my body and stuff and I just flat out told him leave me alone!!! I would have reported him but AOL wouldn't even let me block him without parental permission so he __bullied__ me and stuff online when ever I got on. I felt horrible. That was over four years ago and I still remember every thing he said to me. Every exact word. I felt awful. I hated it. I wanted to tell my parents but I was afraid that they would never let me chat again and I know that's how a lot of other kids feel. It is a bad feeling knowing that people that don't know you are judging you (13 year-old from Virginia)

 __Videos__ http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2owK4tpMUrk&feature=related  A //Frontline// interview with friends and family of Ryan Halligan, a middle school student who committed suicide after being bullied in school and on the Internet through e-mail and instant messaging.

http://www.digizen.org/cyberbullying/fullfilm.aspx  A video that outlines one student's battle with cyberbullying.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6MxxqcH_Mkc The Megan Meier story.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HFsfDLCkfQU CNN interview with Megan Meier's parents.

http://www.ryanpatrickhalligan.org/ The web site of the faterh of Ryan Halligan.